Friday, August 30, 2013

The joy of unplugging*


Today is the start of the Labor Day holiday, and I challenge you to take a day this weekend that is "unplugged." What do I mean by that?  A day with no computer, no cell phones, anything that connects you to other people, the internet, and your dissertation. Yes, I want you to take a day off!  

You may find that, at least initially, you feel a little stressed from not being connected, but this will pass. Enjoy the silence. Listen to the sounds outside your window. Go out and enjoy the day. Maybe read a novel or go to a movie. Talk to your family and friends about anything except your dissertation. If anyone asks about it, tell them I told you that you are not allowed to think about it today! J 

To get the most out of your unplugged day, make yourself aware that you are not connected, feel the freedom. Know that the world can manage without you there for one day. Enjoy this little bit of peace. 

Try meditating and concentrate on your breathing, becoming aware of the world inside you. Your breath is a miracle that accompanies every moment of your life. It has been happening since you took your first breath at birth and will continue until you take that last final breath. It is one of the few automatic body processes that we can control; you can't control your heart beat or the processing taking place in your stomach or liver. But the breath we can hold or speed up. Play with that for a while. 

If you like journaling, this would be a great day for some self-reflections. How are you feeling about your life? Are you happy with where and how things are progressing? What would you like to change, what would it take to do that? Perhaps write a poem about your life at this moment in time. 

Enjoy your day off, your dissertation and I will be here when you get back! 

*My thanks to Judi and Amy for suggesting this topic. Next time, we will take a look at some fall reflections. Do you have an issue or a question that you would like me to discuss in a future post? Send me an email with your ideas. leann.stadtlander@waldenu.edu

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